~ By ZinGirl, Contributing Author
The Art of Sensual Massage: an erotic art form that invites passion and love, the perfect fusion of how and where to touch both body and mind.
- Relax your partner and yourself…a fine bottle of wine, sensual music (tune into Zin’s chill radio link) a warm dip in the hot tub, a silk scarf blindfold.
- Have your partner lay face-down with a small pillow; an added soft scent on the pillow might be nice. A second pillow may also be used under the legs just above the feet.
- Select a quality massage oil. There are types that heat up or have subtle flavors. Try a Karma Sutra assortment, she may love you drenched in chocolate oil, and you may adore her in almond raspberry! Apply the oil to your hands, not directly on your partners skin.
- Start with the feet…and work your way up slowly. Feet can be sensitive, firm pressure will reduce tickling. Your massage strokes should be firm and towards the heart, soft on the return.
- Spend extra time on that sexy rear end. It’s not only great to look at in those sexy jeans but is also a very sensual area. Use your full hands and a good deal of pressure; personally, I love a soft spanking right about now!
- Learn where your partner carries tension and pay special attention to those areas. Shoulders and neck are common tension spots.
Ladies bonus tip: Position your sweet spot at the small of his/her back, take advantage of a light rub on his lower back bone, he/she will know that it is one moment of many.
- When you reach your partner’s head, whisper that you’re just getting started while you take a small neck nibble and turn them over, stay there awhile. The face is an extremely sensuous area, use a light fingertip massage and trace your partners sexy eyes, beautiful cheekbones, luscious lips and the neck, one of the most erogenous zones.
- Excellent time for more oil, and another glass of wine It’s now time to work your way back down, shoulders, forearms and hands, then her breasts/his chest. Work your way from the outside inward. Give special attention to the nipples, squeeze and hold them just tight enough, (similar erotica to the spanking earlier), only after you’ve spent plenty of time on the rest of the breasts.
- Keep going…Tummy, hips and all the way down the outside of the legs. Roll your hands in and come back up the inside…
This is your very own moment. I hope you are able to close your eyes and envision that your evening is just beginning. A sensual massage holds the promise of passion and erotica, yet holds back to emphasize the emotional over the physical. Sensual massage is communication without the use of words, but possible a whimper…..until this moment.
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