Do You [We] Have What it Takes to Become a Swinger?

Sugasm #140

Mistress E courtesy of Dark Mistress.

This Week’s Picks
“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”
“It builds a community that I am so proud to be part of.”

The J Word
“And while you’re with her, I’ll be with him.”

Transcending moment
”It’s that place between fear and arousal, and they are so very closely related.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Chill Pleasure

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BDSM & Fetish
Bathroom bang
Bros Not Hoes – F/m Spanking Video Clip
Cock training
Galerías de spanking: Spanking Server
Games Grown Ups Play
The Most Amazing Sex (and I didn’t come)
Mr. and Mrs. Kink Have Great Sex (Again)
My First Ever Fetish Photography Shoot & Other Wonderful Things
New spanking gallerie – Two girls spanked
Religion and BDSM
Rope
TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!
Your Slut

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-How Do I Know If A Girl Likes Me?
Fetish Safety – Branding
The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Advanced Exhibitionism
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 2
Chill Pleasure
Club Tantra: My Experience, Unabridged
Distraction
Fucking no foreplay
Getting to fuck the neighbor 9
Him
HNT – Peach
Insanity never felt so good
Interludes – part 1
Memoir Of A Married Woman
Popping His Cherry
Re: Dinner Last Night
“Red Bottoms” (Complete)
Sloppy Seconds, Then Thirds
That Time of the Month
Transcending moment
Whiskey Kisses (unedited)

Sex Work
Sex Worker Solidarity: Catalina
Happy Thoughts on Being a Phonesex Op…
Stamp on my forehead saying “ask me about your fetish”

Sex & Politics
“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”
Natalia Antonova on Objectification and Desire
Teen Sex: The New After-School Special?
Women Enjoy Relative Sexual Freedom this 4th of July

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #18: Artemis Hunter and the Silver Bullet
Calstar Spanking – Severe deep stripe marks
Cheerleader is tired in gangbang video
Free video audition of Amsterdam sex performer
Half-Nekkid and Getting Shaved
HNT – A bit cheeky
HNT – Purple Lace
Making Love to the Camera
Mz Berlin Took This Picture Of Herself In Her New Wasp Creation Corset

Sex Humor
Top 6 Reasons for Not Shaving Your Beaver

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Catalina loves Lochai
Comstock Films
Drink Semen for Better Health
Interview about spanking erotica with Spanked contributor Teresa Noelle Roberts
January Seraph Is A Hot Femdom Dominating Jade Indica In Lesbian Latex Role Play
The Monday Buzz: The Bandito
Penny Flame Fucks A Handyman With A Strap-On and Feeds Him His Own Cum
Product Research: Blow Job Dildo
Yes! Yes! Yes! Personal Lubricant

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Be nice… until it is time to not be nice…
Finding out your good friends are swingers
The J Word
Naughty Text Messages and Perverted Friends Makes Life Fun
Sex Advice Review: “Tips to Better Sex and Sleep”
Silence.

Going on A Little Vacation

Ahhh o verão!!!!!, originally uploaded by Jailson Salsi.

Hold the fort down… be back soon.

Sugasm #139 Links

Sandy Summers courtesy of Badgirl’s Hotbox.

This Week’s Picks
Flunking A Call
“I fell silent again and tried to think. What did he want?”

Revision
“He seemed… perfect. ”

Shaving, revisted.
“I don’t do it for society, for anyone who will or will not be seeing it. I do it for me.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Exploitation, objectification and breaking the law…

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You May Be Sexy, But Are You Kinky?

Folks like tests for some reason. It seems to quantify what they think of themselves or would like others to think… it is in that spirit that we’d like to bring to your attention the Kink Test. For those that have already taken the Sexy Test, this one is a bit more thorough, if not just plain longer. Find out just how kinky you are.

Hotlanta Kink Test

The Twelve Best Parades To Pick Up Hot Chicks

Parades. They’re crowded, smelly, and corny
… but you can get some incredible tail if you go to the right ones.

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Swinging Links

As a follow-up to What is with all of the Swinging? – Truth or Fiction, a subscriber sent in a list of links for you to explore the subject. Zinlightened.com is not “Swinger-centric.” Our focus is on all things sexy and as such, we thought that we’d help you open up a few doors.

Swinglifestyle – A community message board and people finder

Swingercast – Poscasters Allie and John’s Adventures and stories

Couple Doing It – Swinger Education

Ask Dan and Jennifer – Great Sex Tips and Discussion

Gentle Nibbles – Your Swinger Source for all things swinger, sex and other swinger advice

What is with all of the Swinging? – Truth or Fiction

You may have heard about a new TV show coming soon to a TV near you. “Swingtown” is supposed to take place in a Chicago suburb in the 70′s. But, it seems like there are rumors floating around that this is taking place everywhere… hence Television is now jumping on the bandwagon. If the show is successful, you can expect to see all of the networks creating a show of their own. Reality shows, games, shows, The ‘Real’ Wife-Swap (for the record, Wife Swapping is an old outdated term, that implies that the guys hold all of the power, when in reality they should just be happy to be included in the fun).

Neighborhoods and suburbs around the country are all buzzing about who’s doing who… what are the signs? How can I tell if my neighbor is a swinger? Does it matter? How do I become a swinger?

For the most part, it’s a bunch of hoopla and another reason for the neighborhood ‘busy-body’ to spread more rumors… as if there were not enough. Playtime is on the rise, but not at the level TV would like to have you believe. We here at Zinlightened.com are all for individual freedoms and think that as long as you are not infringing upon anyone else’s freedom, have yourselves a good time.

I have a theory as to the cause of the increase of activity and it is related directly to divorce. The divorce of the parents of people now in their prime. They have seen the results of their parents decisions and don’t want to follow in their footsteps. Marriage is not perfect and sometimes you need to take steps to spice things up a bit. You shouldn’t “call-off” the marriage because of boredom. Divorce affects far more people than just the husband and wife. It affects the children the most, and those affected children grow up to have a different outlook on life. They don’t want their children to experience the same boatload of issues. I could write an entire treatise on that subject, but I’ll spare you…

To look a little deeper into ‘Swingtown’ Truth or Fiction, check out this review.

“Bicentennial flags, TAB cola and suburban boners are what “Swingtown” is all about. The new series follows the 70s-era exploits of married couples who partake in wife swapping.

Yet how do these jovial relics of the Chicago suburbs compare to modern-day, real-life swingers found around San Francisco? I recently infiltrated the world of swingers (accompanied by a trusty sidekick) to find out what’s real and what’s fiction about “Swingtown.”

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Sensual Playtime

Explore your senses one at a time. Loose control. Anticipation, excitement and the unexpected come together all at once to light you on fire. Erotic play can take several forms. From blindfolds and binds (cuffs) to more advanced forms. Start simple and tantalize the senses. One of my favorite movie scenes was in 9 1/2 Weeks when Kim Basinger with her eyes closed, was teased with fruits on the kitchen floor!

My point is that it takes a little spirit of adventure to break out of a mold. I want you to undertake this endeavor in style.

…and one day, if you invite me, I’ll play along.

Panties on Parade – A Slicker Knicker Picker for Lingerie

This has got to be the hottest (yet useful) panty selector that I have seen. I like to see what I’m getting and see it in action. It sure beats a drawer in your local mall. For the record, my favorite was the blonde with short hair. Visit their online dressing room.

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