About this Blog

In creating this little blog, I’ve found it rather cathartic… it’s a little place where I can sort out all of the information that I have run across on the web or thought about from time to time. I can group it, tag it and categorize it. I can build a history on various subjects as they relate to sex, sexuality, things that are sensual or relaxing. This site is a collection of what I think being “Zinlightened” is all about. There is no one answer and it applies to men and women.

I have mentioned in the past that the Internet is filled with sex and sexual images, but very few sites exist that address how-to-be-sexy or how make your partner feel sexy (or really good). Goodness knows, everyone could use a tip or two. There are several things that I have learned while researching information for this blog. I have incorporated several of my finding into my life. Other findings are just musings, passing ideas or things that look or sound fun.

I hope that if some of you find these tips helpful or not, you’ll take the time to give us your feedback on your results. This is a two-way street.

~Zin

Sensual Playtime

Explore your senses one at a time. Loose control. Anticipation, excitement and the unexpected come together all at once to light you on fire. Erotic play can take several forms. From blindfolds and binds (cuffs) to more advanced forms. Start simple and tantalize the senses. One of my favorite movie scenes was in 9 1/2 Weeks when Kim Basinger with her eyes closed, was teased with fruits on the kitchen floor!

My point is that it takes a little spirit of adventure to break out of a mold. I want you to undertake this endeavor in style.

…and one day, if you invite me, I’ll play along.

Your Sountrack for Sensual, Erotic Photography

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The Art of the Sensual Massage

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~ By ZinGirl, Contributing Author

The Art of Sensual Massage: an erotic art form that invites passion and love, the perfect fusion of how and where to touch both body and mind.

• Relax your partner and yourself…a fine bottle of wine, sensual music (tune into Zin’s chill radio link) a warm dip in the hot tub, a silk scarf blindfold.

• Have your partner lay face-down with a small pillow; an added soft scent on the pillow might be nice. A second pillow may also be used under the legs just above the feet.

• Select a quality massage oil. There are types that heat up or have subtle flavors. Try a Karma Sutra assortment, she may love you drenched in chocolate oil, and you may adore her in almond raspberry! Apply the oil to your hands, not directly on your partners skin.

• Start with the feet…and work your way up slowly. Feet can be sensitive, firm pressure will reduce tickling. Your massage strokes should be firm and towards the heart, soft on the return.

• Spend extra time on that sexy rear end. It’s not only great to look at in those sexy jeans but is also a very sensual area. Use your full hands and a good deal of pressure; personally, I love a soft spanking right about now!

• Learn where your partner carries tension and pay special attention to those areas. Shoulders and neck are common tension spots.

Ladies bonus tip: Position your sweet spot at the small of his/her back, take advantage of a light rub on his lower back bone, he/she will know that it is one moment of many.

• When you reach your partner’s head, whisper that you’re just getting started while you take a small neck nibble and turn them over, stay there awhile. The face is an extremely sensuous area, use a light fingertip massage and trace your partners sexy eyes, beautiful cheekbones, luscious lips and the neck, one of the most erogenous zones.

• Excellent time for more oil, and another glass of wine It’s now time to work your way back down, shoulders, forearms and hands, then her breasts/his chest. Work your way from the outside inward. Give special attention to the nipples, squeeze and hold them just tight enough, (similar erotica to the spanking earlier), only after you’ve spent plenty of time on the rest of the breasts.

• Keep going…Tummy, hips and all the way down the outside of the legs. Roll your hands in and come back up the inside…

This is your very own moment. I hope you are able to close your eyes and envision that your evening is just beginning. A sensual massage holds the promise of passion and erotica, yet holds back to emphasize the emotional over the physical. Sensual massage is communication without the use of words, but possible a whimper…..until this moment.

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Oils Depth of Field Test

Oil DoF
Originally uploaded by zin

This is one of my favorite photos. I was playing with the depth of field setting (f/stop) on the camera.

There were literally hundreds of types of fragrant oils. You should have been there to smell them!

Incense anyone?